Is this temporary or core?

All things are temporary, even my self. That balance: discomfort It's good to plan for what is, instead of what I think should be. Maybe this is who I am, at leading to growth, least for now. or distracting friction? ↓ If it doesn't work, ah well. Life as experiment. assertion is better for me in the long run, I think. - 2015-12-106 It can take effort to shift things. What do I want to shift first? ↓ I can periodically test, but when I choose to. ↓ My top priority shift is clear. How to work towards it, though? Mask and adapt, or assert and negotiate?